Hello, friends! As you know, all messages from other users that you have not yet read are highlighted in blue. As soon as you click on the message, a dialogue with the selected user will open and the message will be read - it will no longer be written on a blue, but on a white background. And, naturally, your interlocutor will also understand that you have read the message.
But there are times when you don't want the other person to know that you are reading their letters. Let's say you are offended by a person, or someone you don't know writes. But I want to read it! What to do in such a case?
So let's figure this out. We will learn how to read the entire sent message from another user. At the same time, it will still be displayed as unread on his and your page.
If you have already clicked on a message that you did not want to click on and opened a dialogue, then it will go into read status. The question arises: how to mark a message as unread on VKontakte? Well, there’s no way to help him (at the moment, at least) - pretending that you haven’t read it won’t work. But for the future, you can use one of the methods described in the article.
If the user sent a short message, then everything is very simple. Go to your messages and read the sent text without opening the dialogue. If there are several messages, enter the user’s full first and last name in the search bar (for example, Anya Kaminskaya), and a list with all his messages will open in front of you.
But if there is an ellipsis at the end of the visible part of the message text, it means that it is not fully displayed.
The method may take time if you have a large history of correspondence on your profile. But...if you really want to read messages from a computer or laptop, and there is no other way, then perhaps it’s worth it.
Please note that it is not always safe to download various programs for VKontakte from the Internet. There is a possibility of catching a virus, or that your username and password will fall into the hands of another person.
Download the AutoVK program from the official website - it is indicated in the screenshot below in the lower right corner: AutoVK.ru.com.
Enter your username and password, then click on the “Authorization” button.
Now the first and last name specified in your VKontakte profile should appear in the lower left corner. If everything is so, click on the “Messages” button.
In the next window you need to select a folder on your computer where all dialogs will be downloaded. I created a “Downloaded correspondence” folder on my desktop in advance. I select it and click “OK”.
Wait for the process to complete and a window with the message “Done” appears.
We look for the selected folder and open it.
It will show files - the entire dialogue with one person, this is a separate file. “Chat_#_1” is a conversation in which you are participating. The name of each file is the page id of the user with whom the correspondence took place.
We go to the page of the user we need on VK and copy his id from the address bar of the browser. Next, in Explorer, click on the search bar and paste the copied number there.
As a result of the search, only one file will remain in the “Downloaded Correspondence” folder. Open it.
A correspondence with the selected person will open in the notepad. The date and time of the message sent will be indicated at the beginning of each line.
As you can see, the text at the top is what I need.
Make it easy to read.
You have read what the person wrote to you, but the VKontakte message is still displayed as unread on both your page and his page.
Download the program from the Internet and unpack the archive. There is no need to install it, just run the executable file with the extension .*exe.
The VK-Robot program is paid, but there is a trial period of 5 days. When it ends, some of the functions will simply become unavailable, but you can still use them.
The main window of VK-Robot looks like this. Immediately go to Settings.
On the “Accounts” tab, enter “Login” and “Password” for your VKontakte page and click “Add account”. After that, it should appear in the field on the right. Click "Save" and close the settings window.
Now click on the arrow next to the word “Export”. From the drop-down menu, select “Export Dialogues”.
Specify your account and click “Select”.
Then select the folder into which all dialogs will be downloaded and click OK. My folder is the same as in the previous paragraph. If you haven't created a folder beforehand, then do it now by clicking "Create Folder".
Wait until all dialogues have been downloaded.
Find the selected folder and go into it. Here all files will be signed - this is the first and last name of the user with whom you corresponded. They are arranged in alphabetical order. Click on the file whose messages you want to read.
The text I need is shown at the very top because it was the last message from this user. The time and date when it was sent are indicated at the end of the message text.
Read what a friend, or a complete stranger, writes to you, and be calm - he won’t know about it.
If you want to read a message on your Android phone or tablet, but want it to remain unread, then you can use various programs.
So, today we will talk to you about what to do if you do not open messages in Contact. In addition, we will try to figure out how you can send a letter on this social network, and also find out what the reasons for today's problem may be.
The first reason why users do not open it is due to technical work or updates on the site. At this moment, as a rule, not only your dialogues will fail, but also all other services.
In this situation, you should be patient and wait a while. After the prevention comes to an end, you will be able to read and send letters on the social network normally. Nothing depends on you here. not the only reason why your VKontakte messages do not open. What else could cause this behavior? Let's figure it out.
If you tried to use unlicensed applications, as well as programs that supposedly expand the capabilities of social networks, then it is not surprising that you will not be able to write or read messages. Most likely, you have “caught” some kind of virus.
It is this that interferes with the normal functioning of the site in your browser. So in this situation, you will have to clean the system from various computer infections. After this, as a rule, all problems disappear. So if you can’t open VKontakte messages, try scanning your operating system. In general, these are the two main reasons why you might have problems. Now let's try to figure it out and also send them. In fact, there is nothing difficult or requiring special knowledge (for example, in programming).
We have already explained to you what to do if VKontakte messages do not open. Now let's assume that everything is working and functioning for us. How can I read letters sent to you? Let's figure it out.
If you logged in from a mobile application, then simply click on “my messages” and then select the appropriate dialogue. New emails will be highlighted. That's all. When you are at a computer, things are a little different.
From a computer? There are several ways to do this that will definitely please you. The first scenario is nothing more than reading a letter from a pop-up window. If you are in front of your computer at the time of receipt, then at the bottom of the screen in your browser (in the website tab) you will see a window for a while in which the letter will be displayed. As a rule, such alerts disappear quite quickly.
In addition, if you don’t know what else you can do, you can click on the number with the number of messages sent. It is located opposite the "My messages" column. As a result, you will have a list of all sent messages. Read them - and that's it.
You can also click on “My Messages” and then select the conversation you need. Where there are new letters, you have a color highlight. Click on the conversation with the mouse and the conversation will be opened. Nothing complicated. True, now we will move on to a more interesting and simpler activity - writing messages.
How to send a message "VKontakte"? First we need to form it. In fact, this process will not take you very much time. Of course, if you are not going to print kilometer posts.
First, you need to log in to the social network. After this there are two ways. The first is the choice of your future interlocutor. Look at his profile and then select "send message". In the window that appears, write a letter, if necessary (the “attach” item at the bottom of the window), and then click on the “send” button. You can also use the Enter key.
Another way is to use existing dialogs. You will need to visit the “My Messages” section, then select a conversation, and then write the post you need. Next, proceed in the same way as the first method - click on “Enter” or the “Submit” button. That's it. As you can see, nothing difficult. Now you know what to do if VKontakte messages do not open, as well as how to write letters and read them on this social network.
You and I have already learned how to restore messages (see). Now let's continue the topic of correspondence on VK. Quite often there is a need to read what has been sent to us. But in such a way that the message remains unread. This is necessary so that the person who wrote to us does not know that we have read his message.
Now I'll show you how to make a VKontakte message unread.
While the message has not been opened, it is displayed with a gray highlight. And the message counter shows that we have new messages (see).
It’s good when they sent one word or sentence. It will be visible in the general list of dialogues, without opening a correspondence.
Keep in mind that if you open the dialog, the message will change to the “Read” status. The backlight will disappear and the message counter will reset to zero. And the sender will know that you have read his message.
It is impossible to make a message that you have opened unread!
There is a little trick. Here is a special link for you - vk.com/im?q=day:01012001. At the end there is a group of 8 digits. What do they mean?
Copy this link and paste it into your browser. Specify the date for which you need to read the message discreetly. Let’s try to look at today’s correspondence as an example (the article was written on February 16). The link will look like this:
Vk.com/im?q=day:16022017
We will go to the page to view the full version of the dialogues. As you can see, here is a correspondence in which there are 6 unread messages. On this page they are displayed in a list.
In the last decade, people have increasingly filled their lives with social networks. They cannot live a day without these sites.
The presence of a user-friendly interface, constant communication with friends, watching videos, listening to music, viewing photos and reading posts in groups make these sites popular.
A person’s VKontakte page will show you his personal data and other information. This social network is popular in the CIS countries and Western countries. There are over 380 million users and this number will increase over time. But in recent years, people need more features.
It doesn't matter why you need this property, maybe you don't want to respond to a notification or ignore the user or don't want to be bothered. People are interested in the methods by which such trickery is accomplished.
The function is not possible if you are sitting through a computer. This trick is carried out using mobile phones and tablets. You will need to download programs that have invisibility and the ability to view the notification and close it unread.
But what programs? This depends on the operating system of your tablet and phone. Let's look at each in more detail.
If you haveAndroid
People who purchase Android immediately download the traditional social network interface. But there are many more social media platforms. Kate Mobile is the most suitable.
In it, the client’s letter is opened, viewed, and the “close unread” button is pressed. In the settings, you can set the option to always close the notification without reading it. Kate Mobile is an alternative to the traditional .
It has a number of useful and interesting functions:
It’s worth trying this platform to find out how you can watch VK messages without reading them.
If you haveiPhone
Two popular operating systems, Android and iOS, are fighting for dominance among customers. To each his own. One person will choose an Android, another - an iPhone.
iPhone users will be pleased with a project in which emails can be viewed and closed without being read. Download the Vfeed project and enjoy the opportunities provided by the developers.
The platform's interface is similar to a traditional application. But it benefits from the presence of an off-line mode and the ability to leave SMS unread. On iOS, this program is quite popular and optimal.
The owner of an iPhone or other device can experiment, download other programs, so you can choose the one that suits you and stick with it for a long time.
If you haveWindows Phone
Things get worse here. The system has designs that provide additional options, but they have too many shortcomings to replace them with a traditional social networking application. There are still many bugs that need to be worked out, which the developers do not pay enough attention to.
This is VKlient and VK Go!. But, judging by the description and reviews, they do not have an unread SMS mode. These applications benefit only due to the stealth mode. Windows Background clients are not satisfied with the quality of these programs and do not recommend downloading them.
Applications freeze, are kicked out of your account upon exit, and there are many more glitches and shortcomings.
Therefore, users will have to wait, maybe in the near future the developers will finalize, improve or create new projects and you will know how to view VK messages without reading them.
A guy can come up with and write a message for several hours in a row to amaze or surprise a girl. Many different thoughts come into his head: how will she answer, what will she think, will she be happy. He sends his message and waits impatiently for a response. And then an hour, two, a day passes, but for some reason his sympathy never sends anything. Although it is clear that she read the message a long time ago. The guy, of course, is confused why the girl does not respond to VKontakte messages. He begins to go through various options in his head: what is the reason why she ignores him. Maybe I wrote something wrong or offended you in some way. The article discusses the most common reasons why this happens.
Why doesn't the girl respond to messages? It should be taken into account that not all people like to communicate virtually and by sending messages; some people prefer live communication. Especially when it comes to love relationships. Therefore, there is a possibility that the girl read the message and is simply waiting for the guy to call her to discuss it over the phone.
Perhaps the girl simply doesn’t find what to write in response. That is, the necessary thoughts do not appear in her head, she is overcome by embarrassment, or she simply cannot figure out how to fit all her feelings into a short message. Or maybe the beautiful person is not sure whether she should respond to the message at all. Especially if the message did not contain an explicit question.
Women, as a rule, like to think and twist a lot; it is very difficult to understand them. They sometimes don’t understand themselves either. Or maybe the charming person to whom the letter was written simply ran out of money for mobile traffic, and she is physically unable to write at the moment. Why does a girl read messages but not respond?
There is also a chance that the girl looked at the message, but does not have time to respond. Because I’m busy, at work, for example. Perhaps you just don’t want to communicate with this guy, maybe he offended you in some way or is not interesting at all.
You need to be realistic. All people have different taste. Maybe he simply didn’t like the guy, or he belongs to the category of men who involuntarily somehow have a repulsive effect on women. And the girl simply does not want to answer rudely, thereby making the person unpleasant. Perhaps he just wants to disappear from the guy's life in English. And in the case when this circumstance becomes obvious, the best thing a guy can do in such a situation is to simply leave the beautiful person alone, and not write a million SMS messages, one after another.
If it is clearly visible that the message has been read, but there is no response to it for a long time, then it is clear that it will no longer be received either by the second or by the third message. But the guy is still looking for reasons why the girl doesn’t respond to messages. Instead, he should put himself in the lady’s shoes and think about how he would behave if he read something like this from a lady he doesn’t like and wouldn’t want anything to do with. This is how she behaves in such a situation. The most important thing is that you don’t need to impose yourself; if they don’t answer, they simply ignore you.
The guy needs to carefully read what he wrote in messages, how many messages he sent and how many times no response was received. It happens that men become too intrusive and stop noticing it themselves. It’s understandable that you want the relationship to develop as quickly as possible when you really like the girl. But first, you can try to carefully look after the object of your sympathy. Not every girl will be delighted with the fact that she is bombarded with messages, but she has only seen the guy a couple of times. Many of them, looking at the number of letters from a person, may simply be afraid of such pressure and intrusiveness.
Therefore, you need to start writing a second letter only after you have received a response to the first. It is recommended to be patient and be able to pause so that the girl has time to get bored. Then, most likely, she will write a message herself.
Why doesn't the girl respond to messages on VK? Perhaps she was just playing this game. The guy is angry that he does not receive an answer. Perhaps the girl was interested in the sender of the messages, but decided to wait a little to whet his interest and pretend that she had more important things to do than answer letters. Thus, she also tests the seriousness of the guy’s intentions. This is what women's logic is like. So in this case you need to have as much patience and restraint as possible. If you start asking questions about why he doesn’t answer, the girl will instantly see insecurity in the guy. And everyone knows that the fair sex doesn’t particularly like such men.
If a guy and a girl had previously communicated only through messages, it would be a good idea for him to inquire about the phone number of the object of his affection. After all, this way a representative of the fair sex will not get lost if she suddenly does not have access to social networks or the Internet. But you don't need to ask for a phone number on the first day of online dating. The girl will be wary and, most likely, will not give him to the guy, and maybe even remove the obsessive admirer from her friends. He'll think that maybe he's some kind of maniac. But after a long conversation, after some time she will give you a phone number.
In this case, the guy won’t think about why the girl doesn’t respond to messages and what else to write to her, but will simply call her and find out what happened. Maybe she was offended or had some difficulties. Moreover, after live communication it will be possible to get to know the person better and think about whether it is worth seeing him in real life. If the desire has not diminished, you can offer to meet in a cafe. Likewise, if a young man is interesting to a girl, she will not ignore messages from him.
It’s better not to start dating girls who live too far from the guy’s place of residence. Because it may happen that mutual sympathy arises, constant correspondence, calls, and then they may meet several times. But often, unfortunately, such long-distance relationships do not lead to good things. Suspicions begin to creep in and mistrust appears. Especially if one of the couple is often busy at work or other personal matters and is not able to immediately respond to messages or talk on the phone for hours. So it’s better to try to find love closer, somewhere from your city or nearby.
We briefly reviewed this topic. Now you can find out in a little more detail what other reasons there may be why a girl does not respond to messages.
Previously, men wrote letters on paper, now they write messages on social networks. But it happens that a girl is in no hurry to answer. That’s when the guy asks questions and begins to get nervous in the same way that gentlemen once worried about why the lady of his heart wouldn’t send a reply letter.
The guy is simple. All people have very different tastes. And even if a young man considers himself simply irresistible, perhaps this particular girl does not like him. Therefore, she simply does not respond to his letters on social networks, making it clear that nothing will work out either in terms of friendship or in terms of love.
Perhaps the guy writes all his messages with the same type of phrases like “Hi, how are you?”, and that’s it. Then it becomes clear why the girl does not respond to messages. She is simply bored and uninterested in communicating with him. The young man doesn’t say anything and doesn’t interest me in any way. At the same time, he expects some funny stories in response. Such an interlocutor will become uninteresting in any case.
There is a type of man whose behavior is very intrusive. They, without having time to write one message and without waiting for a response from the girl, immediately begin to write another one asking why she is silent. And then there are completely inadequate guys who write with the pressure of “answer quickly” or “I’m wasting my time here and you’re not answering.” A girl is unlikely to communicate with such boors and continue any relationship.
It may also be that the girl likes to communicate more on the phone or in person. But he doesn’t know how to conduct long conversations by correspondence. She doesn't want to answer incorrectly and seem stupid. Especially if she liked the guy. In this case, if the girl does not respond to messages, you just need to wait a little and give her time until she finds something to write about.
To win over and interest a beautiful young lady, you must definitely be original. If the girl does not clearly suffer from a lack of attention, the usual advances like “Hey, beauty! Let's talk!" she's unlikely to be interested. Perhaps the content of the message was too banal. Therefore, the girl thinks that the young man wrote the same thing to twenty other attractive people like her.
If the girl read the message and did not respond, and only a few hours have passed, there is no need to worry.
Most likely, she may be busy with household chores, receiving guests, or going out for a walk. You need to wait at least a day before panicking and calling the phone asking why you didn’t answer immediately.
The guy needs to think and remember how he could have offended the girl so much. Maybe he said something wrong or did something without thinking. And here she either simply does not plan to communicate at all, or, most likely, wants the guy to realize everything and ask for forgiveness.
Now you know why a girl may not respond to messages. As you can see, there are many reasons, and they are all different. We have given practical advice that will help you get out of the deadlock. Good luck!
